All of you know that we've been on an extensive journey with Gordon for many years. Lots of twists and turns on this mental health road map. He's been doing very well, by the way. Through all of that, Gordon isn't really a hugger or physical touch person (unless you count a good back-scratch!). So when Gordon asks for a hug, I know that the world has gotten really heavy and he just needs some reassurance.
Yesterday, Gordon asked for a hug. The shooting at Club Q in Colorado should shake most of us to our core at the simple disregard for humankind in general. It should absolutely shake you to know that this type of hatred and ugliness exists. This evil person's actions are not because his mother is a Mormon or because his grandfather is pictured in a MAGA hat. Please don't let those "details" become a distraction to the core issue.
For those in the LGBTQ+ universe, it becomes terrifying. It's a very real reminder that there are people who hate you just because you exist. There are people who would prefer you dead than exist in their world. You've done nothing but be true and honest about who you are, who you love, and how you identify in life. For that, you've become a target for their hatred.
For those struggling in the aftermath of the latest hate crime targeted at you, I see you. We, the advocates and allies, see you. We feel your pain. We sense your fear. You are safe with us. Your cries are heard, your frustrations are validated, and your fear is valid. This type of hatred and ugliness do not cancel you. For the allies, it makes you MORE visible.
If you need a hug today, ask for one. There is someone in your life holding space for you. There are people in your life that love you, validate you and are so thankful that you are here and that you are true to who you are.
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