His mom called this morning. I was afraid to talk to her. What do you say to the woman who's son was murdered by your child? My heart hurts for her and all of his loved ones, but especially her momma heart.
You tell her that she's in your prayers and that you are so sorry for this situation and you tell her how sorry your daughter is. You tell the truth about how your daughter is doing and how badly she feels and you tell her thank you for continuing to love your daughter and her daughter.
I have said it before but truly, there is nothing easy about any of this. My heart hurts for his family. They don't hate his murderer because they love her and she's family. She's their sister, granddaughter, step-daughter, cousin, step-sister, niece...which probably makes it all more confusing and sad for them.
I am reminded daily how blessed we are in all of this. Yes, we are blessed in the midst of this nightmare. The love that has been shown from his family, his fiance, and El's family has been a huge blessing. To know that there is such a huge network of people praying for her and wishing her well.
We are blessed.